SPIRITUAL INSECURITY PART ONE

Many Christians suffer from spiritual insecurity but they do not know this. Out of ignorance they seek for solution where they should not gone to. In the process they bring more problems upon themselves and they keep running heltet skelter like a dancing mascurade.

 They do not know that the solution to their problem is simply in the unfeigned word of God. All the solution to man's problem can only be found in the living word of God but unfortunately many persons are blind to this truth. 

Back to man he topic. What exactly is Spiritual insecurity and how can a person know he or she is spiritually unsecured.

Let me break it down by explaining the keywords.

Spiritual means things that are pertaining to the spirit or the soul. It can also be something pertaining to God or a place of worship. Another definition, also says that it has to do with anything related to spirits or the spiritual. In Christianity, it means to be controlled and inspired by the spirit of God which is the holyspirit.

Insecurity means uncertainty and lack of confidence in oneself. It can also means self doubt. 

Looking at this definition above, Spiritual insecurity means that a Christian or betterstill a person doubt him or her self when it comes to some certain spiritual or physical issues which would lead to uncertainty and lack of confidence.

There are various aspect of life that a person an be spiritually insecure such as relationship/marriage, career, daily choices, finance, relationship with God and so on.

In this article, I will talk about how to know that you are spiritually insecure in your relationship with others especially as it regards choosing a life partner.

Every human has specification(spec) of what kind of person that they want to get married to. What I want is different from what you want.  Person A spec can be a tall fair handsome man. Person B spec can be a a dark short beautiful lady. This individual specification makes some person to marry the wrong person which will make them to regret later and their marriage will be  hell on earth. 

There are many successful marriage out there and yours can be successful too if you make the right choices.

The first thing you should notice when you are spiritually insecure about our relationship is uncertainty. You are not sure of what you want.  Settle for what  what you want and focus on it. Don't marry for the wrong reasons.

The second thing is that you are out of the will of God. God's will for everyone is to marry the right person and the only way to know His wil is constant communication with your creator. Before he formed you, h already knows how your life will be.

How  do I communiate with him? By prayer and studying his word consistently. As simple as this is, many Christians cannot do it. 

The third and the last thing is that you have not discovered yourself. Before you think of finding your missing rib, have you discover who you are and your purpose? No lady or man would want to follow a person without a purpose and sense of direction. 

As you search for your missing rib, find your purpose.

In the next article, I will talk about another aspect that people are spiritually insecure. 

Stay tuned

©Gideon Jaiyeola